Make love, not divorce

Happy Valentine's day everyone, today is the day to spend with that special someone who you truly care about. When we are single, we can work on ourselves, we can focus on what matters in our lives and how to achieve what we want. But when we are in a relationship, the focus goes to the other person; we suddenly have divided attention. And this is a good thing.

But after years of being together, it can be easy to slip into old habits and turn our lives into routine. Then we not only forget to focus on our significant other, but we also forget to focus on ourselves, and after time we feel lost. So we either separate or get a divorce, but it doesn't have to be this way.

If we all strive to make it work, it can. It just takes a lot of effort, and in our society it's just easier to drop it and move on. And if that is what is necessary, I good family lawyer like myself can help with this complicated process. But try as hard as you can, specially if you have kids, to make things work.